Tori Boggs is a 31-time Grand World Jump Rope Champion, multiple
time US National speed and power Record Holder, captain of Team
USA, and current Triple Unders World Record holder.
With over 1 million followers across her social media platforms,
she's performed on The Ellen Degeneres Show, ESPN, Robin Meade’s
Morning Express, NBA Halftimes, Ted X Events, and on America’s,
Britain’s, and Italia’s Got Talent, to name a few. Tori is a
performing artist and choreographer with companies such as Flip
Fabrique, Cirque du Soleil, and in theaters across the globe.
For over 20 years, she has traveled the world competing,
teaching, and performing jump rope in over 30 countries. She has
passion for using the rope in unique and creative ways to inspire
others to be healthy, active, and vital in every aspect of life,
encouraging a positive outlook and purposeful attitude.
Here are some key points that I would advise you to concentrate
on
You can make a career out of your passion, all you need is
dedication.
No matter your passion, there is a community that you can join.
The world is a much smaller place nowadays, google your local area
and passion for potential clubs, look at Meetup.com and the like
for clubs and associations you can join.
Family, friends and even teachers may push back when you try
and go a road less traveled career wise. You need to keep dedicated
and focused on your goals. You can always find a job or a career to
help cover the bills as you try and make a success of your chosen
area, but regret is a much worse result than trying. Remember it is
your life, your goals, do it for you, not for what your family
expect, your culture etc - the world needs more people being true
to themselves!
There are a lot of advanced skills in jump roping, but you will
need to start at the beginning, to dial in the fundamentals. Watch
the video below for an idea on where to start and the first skills
to try and learn:
Whatever you do, have fun, learn by playing around, pushing
yourself out of your comfort zone. It can take years to learn a
skill so it needs to be fun to learn and fail through the years
towards mastery.
Jump roping is a fantastic way to get fit. Don't overdo it at
the start, build up slowly to prevent injuries.
There are beginner ropes that you can purchase, which help you
develop spatial awareness, timing etc.
Learning new skills are a fantastic way to build a creative
mindset, which will help will all areas of your life. "There is
no ceiling on what you can create" and you can add your own
individual flair on each skill you use.
Use your passion in the activity to encourage and inspire
others to start their own journey.
Everyone goes through a learning phase, even Tori! Stop beating
yourself up. You don't fail because you made a mistake, it's a
learning experience. Look at what it teaches you, where did it go
wrong, how can you fix it, how do you resolve the issue, and you
will come back stronger and a more skilled performer. The only time
you fail is when you give up.
Tori uses her routines to show part of her personality during
the routines, she uses her favourite music and love for dance to
reflect who she is as a person. You can use your hobby to help
build your identity, to show who you are as a person
Encourage your children to follow their passions and take part
in any way they feel happy. Tori shares a special bond with her mum
who is also involved with the sport. By encouraging and helping
your child in their passions, will help you build a strong, deep
bond with your children.
You don't need to compete in your sport, you should only be
competing with yourself and being better than the version of you
that you were the other day, but competing allows you to test
yourself, be put under pressure and learn how to deal with fear,
stress etc, and see where you skill set needs work and improvement,
to help advance your game etc.
Tori utilises intrinsic motivation, she looks for motivation
within herself on what she does rather than trying to compete with
others, she finds a goal and pursues it to make her happy. What
would happen if you stopped doing things because others expected it
etc, and instead you did the things that you wanted to do for you,
and you will more likely find success when it is something that you
are internally driven by.
You need to adopt Tori's 'Small Wins' mindset, where she works
on her skills daily, and when things go right, she focuses on the
small wins and successes, the improvement in her game, better
timing etc. No matter how bad a session is for you, there will be
something that went right. Use the small wins in all areas to build
your confidence, to motivate you to keep driving forward. The
negative parts are learning experiences, use them as a learning
tool, and you will help build your confidence and help build up a
mindset that will help you look to the bright side of life, to look
for solutions rather than problems etc.
Fear when trying a more advanced skill will not go away, even
Tori as 31 times world champion feels it. Instead of focusing on
the worries and the fear, she instead looks back at why she
started, her love for the sport and how far she has come. Remember,
a positive reason to do it will always overcome a negative doubt.
Your brain is just trying to keep you safe. I find naming fear
helps, listening to it and moving forward anyway (with safety
equipment and planning as needed!) helps lose the power fear has on
us. With some proper planning, help from coaches etc as needed, you
can achieve what you want, you just need to use intrinsic
motivation rather than be held back by fear.
Look at your goal as going through a maze. One option might not
work to your target, but there is normally another pathway to what
you need, another method or alternative option to take that will
lead you to the goal.
Use habits and systems in your life, rather than a to-do list.
Make eating healthy, sleeping better, training etc part of your
life rather than something you need to do. When something is a
system and happens automatically, or is a routine action in your
life, you do it without really thinking about it, and it reduces
the need to be motivated to do it, it becomes part of your day and
another step towards your success.
Jump roping is a great fitness builder that you can add into
your sport training, as part of a cross training approach. It can
help coordination, full body control, physical literacy etc. Add it
into your training and see how it can benefit your sport and
training! A lot of the benefits are transferable to other sports
and activities.
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