Oct 10, 2022
Today's guest is Kenneth Play!
Kenneth Play is an international sex expert and sex educator.
Named the world’s greatest sex hacker by GQ, he has been featured
by more than one hundred media outlets, including The
New York Times, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, Huffington Post, and
Nightline.
Kenneth has been a guest lecturer on female sexual pleasure at
New York University and San Jose State University. His work has
helped millions of men gain lasting confidence and
competence. AskMen described Kenneth’s most recent course as having
"at least one nugget of sexual learning you’ve almost certainly
never encountered before, if not several."
Kenneth is an Asian immigrant with an average-sized penis who
lived most of his early life with crippling sexual insecurity.
Determined to overcome this anxiety, he dedicated his life to
studying the complexities of academic sex research, exploring the
mysteries of Tantra, immersing himself in the forbidden world of
BDSM, and even joining the lustful chaos of underground sex
parties.
His quest worked. Today, GQ calls Kenneth “the world’s greatest
sex hacker,” Men’s Health calls him “the orgy king,” and he is now
ready to tell you exactly what he has learned.
In Beyond Satisfied, Kenneth shares the sex hacking secrets he’s
successfully taught millions of men. This book is a cross between
Bruce Lee’s mixed martial arts approach and Tim Ferriss’ 80/20
rule—but for sex. Far from just another “find her clitoris” guide,
Beyond Satisfied distills hard science and hands-on experience into
techniques that any man can successfully put into practice.
In this book, you’ll learn scientific secrets that unlock her
hidden orgasmic potential and gain a huge array of skills that will
get you results—right now.
You will learn how to:
● Overcome performance anxiety like a world-class athlete
● Fulfill her naughtiest fantasies—by understanding her erotic
mind
● Curate a ninety-minute orgasmic experience
● F**k like a beast with any size penis
● Help her experience squirting for the first time
With the system in this book, you can transform your sex life
beyond what you thought was possible, beyond mind-blowing, beyond
connected...beyond satisfied.
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Here are some key points that I would advise you to concentrate
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- Sex is a skill that can be learnt, just like any other
skillset. No one is born better, you just need to build on your
skill level.
- The best sex comes from a focus on what your partner is
experiencing and enjoys.
- Better sex can lead to a better connection with one
another.
- Kenneth felt his own internal shame when he started his own
sexual journey, worried about his dyslexia, his penis size etc, and
more. Stop belittling what you bring to the partnership, no matter
the label you put on it, and give all of yourself to the other
person or people and through true connection, the sex becomes so
much better.
- "Women aren't complaining about the size of men's dicks,
they are complaining about how they use it!"
- "Statistically most penis fit most vaginas."
- We are not taught the techniques of sex or how to pleasure one
another, sex ed only really focuses on the reproduction side of
things. We need a cultural shift to teach people that pleasure is
enjoyable and should be shared.
- Sex is an emotional act, not just a physical act.
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- "Watching porn to be a better lover is like watching the
'Fast and the Furious' to be a better driver". "There is a
lot of difference between the meta verse and the real
world."
- "You are prioritizing her wellness" when you talk
about consent and follow the rules.
- "Most of the filthiest fantasies are written by women"
... their erotica really lets you see an insight into the type of
sex and connection that women want in their life.
- "Guys want to have a competitive advantage" so why not
use such an amazing resource like Kenneth's book to learn the
tactics to blow her mind during sex, and connect with her on a
level that no one else ever has!
- "Women respond to pressure better than friction, if you
understand the fundamental principle of how orgasm works, and you
edge her all the way there, you can learn how to unlock any
lock (her orgasms) with your key (your penis!). "
- You can see in how someone is breathing, in the changes in
their micro-expressions to see how someone is enjoying
something.
- "You have to learn how to feel and the feeling is not
just feeling her but also your own body." You need to listen
to her sounds, the subtle change in her face, her body, her muscles
etc.
- By showing her that you care and will pay attention, is
mind-blowing to a partner, that you are not just out for your own
needs, but want to share the pleasure and experience truly with
each other.
- "... the mutual pleasure is so mind-blowing and guys
under-estimate (so much) that it is like they are trying to steal a
snack when they could have the restaurant".
- Everyone doubts themselves, but top tier experts, feel the
fear, and do it anyway. The fear will always be there, name it,
tell it 'not today' and go for it.
- After-care is one of the key things that you need to
incorporate into your sex life, to connect and bond with one
another.
- "There is a beautiful balance between selfishness and
selflessness in sex ... it is a dance between the two ... it is a
flow of the energy between the two".
- "It all comes down to more than what you say is how you
behave like what you do".
- Women are very good at being able to identify when you are not
being truthful, so stop lying, be honest, and open and go for.
- Create a play-lab, somewhere you can have sex, learn, grow, try
new things and experiment and become a more skilled and connected
lover.
- Gauging arousal is like being a successful comedians, who tells
a joke and feels the mood and emotion of the room, to see how
things are working and not just tell a joke and not check if anyone
laughed! So why would you do the same for the things you are doing
in bed (etc) with a partner?!
- Sex has a lot of levels that you can improve on: incl foreplay,
oral, anal, fingering etc.
- It is not a slap in the face of your masculinity to admit you
can be better in bed. Why give up using an amazing resource like
this and level up your sex life. Most women do not want to have to
teach you how to be better in bed, so why not let an expert like
Kenneth teach you how to level up quickly in all areas of sex!
- Treat sex and her pleasure like taking her to a restaurant, you
wouldn't expect her to be happy with going there and not getting
her meal, so why would you expect her to be happy
- Spend 15 minutes working on a technique each time, to keep
leveling up your overall sex life, and aim to get better at least
1% in each area each time!