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Next Level Guy

Oct 9, 2021

Today’s guest is Blaine Anderson! 

Blaine is a dating coach for men. She specializes in helping guys build confidence, learn to authentically market themselves, and attract amazing partners fast. You can find her on Instagram at @datingbyblaine or her website

In this interview, we discuss:  

  •  The 5 E's to Dating Success
  • How to use technology to find people you want to date
  • How to build systems in your life to meet the people you want in your life
  • How you should view rejection
  • Dating Red Flags
  • How her masterclass could change your life and so much more! 

Here are some key points that I would advise you to concentrate on

  • How has she noticed dating change over the last ten years?
  • How technology has had a large impact on dating. 
  • Has she noticed key problems that men worldwide have when it comes to dating?
  • Men do not know how to market themselves, to communicate to others about what makes them great partners for women. 
  • Stop selling yourself to women, stop seeking validation from them! 
  • Passion is sexy! Women are attracted to you when you are being passionate about whatever you love! 
  • Women want to join a fun life, not be your entire life 
  • What are Blaine's key 5 E's to dating?
  • What are signs that you need a dating coach
  • Does pick-up work?
  • Women notice when you are not being an authenticate person, and they can spot when you are not being true to yourself. 
  • How do you build an attractive social life and build chances to meet new people?
  • How do you overcome the fear of going out and trying new things to meet new people?
  • It is ok to be nervous! If you want new experiences, you need to step out of your comfort zone! 
  • Rejection is part of life! Being rejected by someone isn't a life or death situation, you have just found one person you are not connected to, and are closer to finding people that you will be connected with! 
  • How can you build systems to meet women in your everyday life? 
  • Stop pressurizing yourself with unrealistic expectations, remove the burden of asking for numbers etc - go in with the only goal of meeting new people.
  • How can you rediscover your confidence and love yourself again after a divorce, pandemic etc?
  • Why would you want to do what Clooney would do?!
  • How to deal with social anxiety?
  • Practise chatting and flirting with everyone in your life, so it is natural when it comes to actually speaking to the ones you wish to date and attract
  • How do we switch the mindset of feeling nervous to approach someone to actually feeling excited about it?
  • You are not going to be everyone's cup of tea, 98% of people will not be interested, but the 2% will change your life! 
  • Blaine's fantastic advice for how to deal with rejection when you approach people! 
  • How should we approach people? 
  • How the situation affects how you should approach someone you are interested in?
  • Why do you need to think of yourself as a prize and not just accept whoever is interested in you? 
  • What are dating red flags that you need to watch out for 
  • How do relationship dynamics change as we age in terms of what we want out of life and in our partners?
  • You need to trust your gut on if they are right for you or not
  • How can you gauge if someone is interested in your or not?
  • How do we avoid putting someone on a pedestal and stop projecting futures with people when there isn't one
  • How you should use technology to meet new people and obtain dates
  • The 3 key things you need on your dating profile! 
  • You need to be unique on your dating profile. You need to seem like a real person, an attractive, passionate person. 
  • Women care far more on how you make them feel compared to how you look on whether the attraction is there ... or stays. 
  • How do you keep the spark alive when in a relationship?
  • How to learn from your past relationships.
  • How can Blaine help you by coaching you. 
  • Why you need to sign up for Blaine's Masterclass right now!