Today’s guest is Tripp Kramer, aka Tripp Advice, a leading men's
dating and relationship coaches, who has the number 1 dating
channel on YouTube.
Tripp became frustrated with his own relationship skills with
women when in college. He struggled to build attraction and
escape the friend zone with girls he would meet. He eventually
decided enough was enough and wanted to get a handle on this and
meet the women he wanted to in life. He tried pickup and found it
didn't work for him as he felt inauthentic and playing a
Determined to figure out a better way, he went out routinely,
and approached women until he found found the strategies and tips
that actually worked with women, and built a dating toolbox that
brought dates and relationships with women he had always
wished for. Furthermore, he figured out what makes a man truly
attractive and how to build a fun and attractive live, and be the
most attractive version of yourself. As his success with women
increased, he realized he was onto something and started his own
podcast and dating company to help others. To date, he has coached
thousands of men to become confident and attract the women of their
choice. His passion remains, helping men become powerful,
confident, and date any kind of woman they want all while being
true to themselves.
In this interview, we discuss dating and relationships, to
become more attractive to women, what truly matters to women, how
to build attraction during conversations, how to ask for her number
and get more dates and so much more.
Here are some key points that I would advise you to concentrate
You do not need to settle on the people who reply, it is not
fair on any of the parties and future children
His opinion on pickup and where it goes wrong
Pickup teaches men to play a character, providing things to say
and do, you are not congruent to who you are, and women pick up on
the lack of truth in your behavior.
All skills can be learnt, they all take effort and will be
challenging in various ways. You need to put in the effort, but the
rewards can be life changing.
How does he work with a client on changing their mindset and
approach to become more attractive to women
How to become more attractive as a person.
Your mindset will stop your progressing if you believe you
aren't attractive, can't meet women etc. Tripp works on changing
your beliefs on who you believe yourself to be.
Your money and status are red herrings in the areas to change
about yourself to become more attractive. Confidence and
self-belief are much more important to you and attractive to
You can't fake the real you, and women pick up when you are
being fake. Remove toxic people from your life.
Stop putting women on a pedestal, a woman will not complete
you, a relationship will not make you happy if you are not happy in
yourself already. Build a life of fun, adventure and excitement,
and people will be attracted to you and want to become friends, and
others will want to become a lover too.
Being social to all - is this a good approach to begin
improving your relationship.
Every opportunity you have to speak to someone is great
practice time to improve your ability to start and maintain
Women are more interested in who you are as a person, more than
what you look like. Looks are not important in dating!
What should you look for in a conversation with a woman and
know when it is time to escalate the conversation and be flirty and
ask for the number.
His checklist on what he looks for during an interaction
to know that someone is interested .. and its extremely simple and
it will always work.
How to overcome social anxiety and his tips for overcoming
Why he doesn't want his clients drinking before they try and
meet women ... and why you need to avoid the fake confidence that
alcohol provides you.
How to avoid oneitis or putting certain women on pedestals, and
miss meeting new people because we are pining for someone
You need to realize the value of yourself, you are a quality
guy and need to believe it. Again, no one will complete you by
How to become a better story teller, and being the fun and
When speaking to a woman about an experience they had - Try
using the phrase 'what was it like' to allow them to go into detail
on the conversation and ad detail, relive the experience and
associate you with the feel good feelings of the event.
Focus more on the time they spend with you rather than what she
says in reply to you. The more time she spends with you, the more
likely she is interested. If she wasn't, she would have walked
How you should deal with rejection.
Do dating apps teach us to judge solely on looks, have we
forgotten how to judge on the character of the person over the
looks of someone.
How to communicate with the people you are dating, trying to
setup dates etc.
Why you need to organize the date as quickly as possible during
the phone chats to avoid ghosting etc.
His opinions on dating apps - are they worthwhile?
How to avoid the friend-zone on dates.
What he wants you to remember when it comes to becoming more
attractive to women.
About the Podcast
The Next Level Guy Show, a podcast where I interview experts to learn the hacks and tips to better our own lives. The website URL is https://www.nextlevelguy.com/ and previous guests have included Gary Vaynerchuk, Tom Bilyeu, Diamond Dallas Page, Mark Bell, Aubrey Marcus, Jay Morton, Jay Cutler, Josh Barnett, Mark Beaumont, Forrest Galante among others.